October 6, 2019

Updated by BigDukeCityBlackBoy

 

 

If you've joined the group, you may have some questions. Most of them will be answered here. If you have questions that aren’t answered here, don't hesitate to hit us up on Meetup or email us!

 

Q: How do I become a member of Duke City Jacks?

 

A: Request to join the group on Meetup.

 

Q: Who can join Duke City Jacks?

 

A: Men OVER THE AGE OF 21 can join Duke City Jacks. Duke City Jacks is a body positive group, which means that men of all shapes and sizes are welcome. YOU MUST BE OVER THE AGE OF 21 TO JOIN!!!  

 

Q: When is the next meeting?

 

A: We get this question a lot. Things change throughout the week and sometimes come up randomly during the day. Join us in the private Meetup group to keep up on meeting details.

 

Q: Do I have to be gay?

 

A: No. Gay men do account for majority of our membership. However, there are also men of varying sexual orientations and circumstances who are a part of Duke City Jacks. 100% DISCRETION IS A MUST!!! Simply put, there are an assortment of men who attend the Duke City Jacks events.

 

Q: What are the rules when I go to a meeting?

 

A: Meeting rules may vary slightly depending on the venue. However, there are a few basic rules:

 

• Only masturbation is allowed

• No oral/anal sex acts are permitted

• Mutual touching is allowed

• Bring a towel to lay/sit on and be freshly showered/clean when you arrive. It is not only good personal hygiene to do this, but it also shows respect for the other men who are present.

• No clothing allowed! You must COMPLETELY DISROBE upon the start of the event.

 

You may bring any lubes or toys of your liking.

REMEMBER: This group is dedicated to MASTURBATION ONLY. These rules will be STRICTLY ENFORCED!

 

 

Q: Does it cost anything?

 

A: If a member has rented a hotel room, donations will be requested to help defray the cost. Otherwise, there is no cost for being a member of Duke City Jacks.

 

Q: What if I just want to watch?

 

A: That’s completely fine. If you are invited to play and are not interested, just politely let that individual know. If you do want to join in but are unsure if someone wants to play, just ask. Some just like to watch. Others like to join the fun.

 

Q: I'm a woman or I want to bring my wife/girlfriend. Is that ok?

 

A: Duke City Jacks is dedicated to an ALL MALE environment. Other groups (commonly referred to as “Jack and Jill” groups), have tried to have women be a part of the action with varying levels of success. Please keep in mind that many of our members identify as gay and may not feel comfortable having a woman in the room, even if she looks like Pamela Anderson. 

 

Q: Why can't we have oral sex?

 

A: One of the goals of Duke City Jacks is to create/promote a safe environment for everyone. Plus, there’s just something about meeting up with guys to masturbate that is different.